I got this note from one guy who posted it on my Facebook yesterday. actually the note is all about '10 things guys wish girls knew'. but it seems the other 9 didnt even bother me at all but this one really attract me:
6) PMS is no excuse to he mean.
"I know girls get weird at 'that time of the month,' but I don't get why they have to act like I'm their worst enemy," confides Shahrul. "Sometimes, my sister acts like she wishes I were dead because I won't give her the remote control, but all that's going on is she's PMSing. Screaming at me and freaking out on me isn't right."
From boys P.O.V : We know what you're thinking which is boys just don't understand what it feels like to wake up with serious cramps and have to get up from that warm bed at 6 a.m. to put on tight jeans over a bloated belly so you can go do fractionals in homeroom. So, yeah, we feel your pain--and we really mean feel it.
But that's the point: Boys actually don't!
ok,u get it?of coz yeahhh.actually men rarely know d mystery behind a woman's PMS symptoms.for women,sometimes we never mean to do that way and it jz out of control or subconscious rite?who says that we never try our best to control all the 'crazy things' during PMS-ing??i always discuss diz matter wif my bestfrens n we know sometimes we r mad at them(men) for nothing. but we've tried not to act like dat ok!we've tried.it jz during dat time we r...not quite ourself!*sigh :(
n for men...if u were given even a day to have such 'PMS' ,maybe all d questions on ur mind will be missed! but God knows best.he never test u dat way because he knows u r d one who can control and handle ur girls how to manage their mood swing n their emotions bcoz some r jz hypersensitive emotionally.coz women r naturally born as a weak creature plus when it comes to diz matter we really cant handle it wisely.sometimes we dont even know how to distinguish what is rite n wht is wrong. but i'm not saying dat every woman cannot control it. of coz some of them can but it depends. maybe diz month would be ok n cud be so nice to u..but dont get surprised if next month she cud totally change from being nice to being a total bitch during their PMSing.
but pliz.again.dont get me wrong.i'm not blaming both side.men, u can still have dat feeling. maybe if i were u, i wud feel d same thing. but it jz a simple thing u can do.jz try to understand woman's needs during dat time period. sometimes maybe they mad at u jz bcoz they need more attention n dont want u to stay away from them.n women out there, dont go overboard. if ur man dont want to try to understand u,dont force them.find another way to settle ur mess.if there's still no solution,jz release it by crying like crazy.i bet u will be jz fine!:)
n for men...if u were given even a day to have such 'PMS' ,maybe all d questions on ur mind will be missed! but God knows best.he never test u dat way because he knows u r d one who can control and handle ur girls how to manage their mood swing n their emotions bcoz some r jz hypersensitive emotionally.coz women r naturally born as a weak creature plus when it comes to diz matter we really cant handle it wisely.sometimes we dont even know how to distinguish what is rite n wht is wrong. but i'm not saying dat every woman cannot control it. of coz some of them can but it depends. maybe diz month would be ok n cud be so nice to u..but dont get surprised if next month she cud totally change from being nice to being a total bitch during their PMSing.
but pliz.again.dont get me wrong.i'm not blaming both side.men, u can still have dat feeling. maybe if i were u, i wud feel d same thing. but it jz a simple thing u can do.jz try to understand woman's needs during dat time period. sometimes maybe they mad at u jz bcoz they need more attention n dont want u to stay away from them.n women out there, dont go overboard. if ur man dont want to try to understand u,dont force them.find another way to settle ur mess.if there's still no solution,jz release it by crying like crazy.i bet u will be jz fine!:)
